Thursday, October 29, 2009

bfast- same

lunch- rice, kim chi, zucchini, galbi (special Korean chicken dish... good flavor but the bones wierded me out - I had a hard time figuring out how to eat it!), and a peppery soup that was milky looking with those rice cake things again

dinner- still full from lunch!... I ate a few bites of the yummy curry I made last night (Korean curry mix with apples, carrots, bell pepper and tofu), and a yogurt

Didn't see my Korean mom today. Maybe she moved to a different corner?

The computer teacher was using my "office" as a testing center for the first three class periods of the day, so I just put on my headphones and did my thing while 30+ Korean kids stared at me. Great times :) The computer teacher reallllly wants to speak English fluently, and she kind of latched herself onto me today. I was kind of surprised, but enjoyed her company.

Lunch was wierd- I was surrounded by the big wigs of the school... the principal, head teacher, assistant principle... and everyone was watching me eat. I think it was because I look absurd trying to eat with chop sticks, and galbi is a very important Korean dish. I tried to act like I didn't notice, and would just look up and smile at them every once in a while... but I got a little self conscious.

My alien registration card arrived today - I am now an offical "alien" :) So, in the afternoon the special education teacher took me to the bank, where I opened a Korean bank account.

After classes ended, my two buddies were hanging out in my office. Yea Gyun (the girl) asked me to go to the market with her. So, when 5 o'clock came around, we left school and headed for the "market". When we got outside, my little guy was waiting - I asked him "do you want to walk with us?" and he shook his head yes. Love that kid.

Yea Gyun ended up taking me to a stationary store in the shopping district about 10 minutes past my apartment. "I want to buy you a gift," she said. She wouldn't take no for an answer, so I looked for the least expensive thing I could find (we decided on some really cute Hangul stickers!), and we were on our way. I was so humbled at the selflessness of this little girl. She is amazing. I learned a lot about her today - she is learning English and Japanese, and hopes to learn French. She had so many good questions for me about culture in the U.S... and she had many good insights into Korean culture, too. One that stuck in my mind: I told her kids in Korea work much harder than kids in the U.S. (in Korea, most kids go to at least one extracurricular - i.e. piano lessons, English school, etc. almost every day of the week). She said, "America is better than Korea, so we have to work harder". Quite a big statement from a little girl of 10. She is an amazing person.

It was now dark outside, and I was worried about her walking home alone. She said her mom would be picking her up on the corner across the street from my apartment, so I waited there with her. I got nervous when we were waiting for what seemed like a long time, and it was getting later and creepier (at least to me) being outside. Finally she called her mom and everything worked out perfectly. She gave me another gift before we parted ways - a cute little notebook specially designed for learning vocabulary (she has been teaching me so many Korean words). What a fun gift! "Now," I told her, "I have no excuse to be bad at Korean!"

1 comment:

  1. That is pretty funny that you were self conscious. Koreans watch people eat to make sure they like what they eat. They ask if it is good or say eat this or that..used to drive me crazy... like just leave me alone.
    Some Korean food you decribed, I have no idea what you are eating...I like bibimbab (veggi and rice mix) not a big fan of soup with some stuffs...I like chigae (thicker than soup).
    Koreans like to give gifts. I don't know why. I am more used to mind my own business now. But I used to feel hurt when people talk as if I were not there and not including me. I understand now that most people here are like "none of my business".. I am not nosy but in Korea, people care if others are around you and try to make sure you are comfortable. Maybe too much. I did not like that back when I was in Korea.
    I look back my 15 years in America, I felt very insecure at first, even if I had more education than anyone around... I went to EWHA(people there would know my school) university. Came to America and studied accounting and got MBA but I still felt insecure because I could not speak well and just not comfortable. Now I am very comfortable and not to worry about how I am presented to others. My perspective changed.
    Culture is quite amazing. Growing up as Korean Kid is very sad thing compared with what American kids experience here. All I remember is I studied, did homework, and well behaved. Bad kid is not Cool over there. Who knows, that might be different now...
    Enjoy all your experience as I did in America...

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